What do I do if alphys wont be my friend?

If Alphys won't be your friend in a game like "Undertale," try to engage with her more by showing kindness and understanding. Completing her quests or helping her with her insecurities can improve your relationship. Additionally, consider exploring different dialogue options to see if that changes her response. If all else fails, remember that not every character can be befriended, and that’s part of the game's experience.