How can you tell if the man you're having an affair with loves you?

About Love!May I reWord your question? Would you mind if I asked "why, if we had so much in common, did he leave me?

If the two of you had a lot in common, you should cry over him. For being alike, rather than that Hollywood idiom 'love', counts for the possibility of a great relationship. Build on what you have in common, give him a call, remind him and hope for the best.

But if you want to know what relationships are all about read Meyer's book on "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters."