Human relation theory

I don't think there is any, singular, human relations theory. Human relations are addresed by a range of theoretical perspections. There is a concept called Object Relations Theory that deals with the internal representations people have regarding self and others, and how they impact the relationships (particularly intimate ones) that people form. There are different schools of object relations theory and those schools vary in the degree to which Biology and experience is considered important in how these internal representations are formed. Some personality problems can be explained this way. People who are narcissitic may seek mirroring relationships. They want others who reasonate with a grandiOSe image of themeslves, and can get quite depressed in the absence of such relationships. Borderlines tend to project out their ambivalent feelings to those with whom they relate, creating chaos and high drama, as they seem to fight against the project parts of themselves. The chaos actually serves as a defense against depression. These theories can get quite complex but this gives some indication of what they are about.