Why is it hard to get things in you when you're not aroused?

When you're not aroused, your body is in a relaxed state, which can lead to reduced blood flow to the genital area and a lack of lubrication. This makes it physically uncomfortable or difficult to insert objects. Additionally, psychological factors like anxiety or lack of desire can create tension and resistance, further complicating the ability to engage in such activities. Overall, arousal plays a crucial role in both physiological readiness and psychological comfort.