Why do women who are into you tell you deeply personal disturbing things when you first meet them yet women who aren't into you seem normal?

One reason why women who into you tell you what you consider, deeply personal, disturbing things when you first meet them is because they want to share. They want you to get to know them. Women who aren't into you may seem more normal to you because they are not trying to get to know you better and to have you know them.