What to say when someone is hurtful to you?

When someone is hurtful to you, it's important to address the situation calmly and assertively. You might say, "I felt hurt by what you said/did, and I would appreciate it if we could discuss this." This approach expresses your feelings without escalating the conflict and opens the door for a constructive conversation. Remember to focus on your feelings and the impact of their Words or actions rather than attacking the person.