What are the 5 factors that influence self esteem?

The first influence on one self-esteem is the esteem of parents for their own children. Later in life, esteem, self-esteem and respect are earned. There's no knack or trick. Clocking up worthwhile achievements at school and work help. Treating others with respect is an important element. :) Try to spend time with people who respect you - and who you respect, too. Obviously, stand up to or avoid people who just rubbish you.