When slowdancing with a guy it depends on how close you two are.
Personally, for me i do the same thing with like everyone, but seem people prefer only to get really close to their boyfriend. Now don't think the movies say it all. Alot of movies (especially PG-13 and down) show the girl and boys standing like a foot apart, at my school that's called "leaving room for Jesus" and is done only by the extreme dorks. No you get as close as possible to the guy but make sure your whole body is against them, not just part because it will look awkward if just your boobs are on him, or it will look like your grinding if your legs are wrapped around him and the upper half of your body isn't touching him. If your guy is tall enough, put your head on his shoulder/chest, if he isn't don't look at him, it looks weird. The only time you would look at him is if you two were going to kiss. To do this you would usually touch forheads then kiss, be sure to not miss because there's nothing more embaressing. Also, when slowdancing don't look down. It will look like you're sad, and you don't want your guy thinking that. Oh and if he puts his hands on your butt, DO NOT FREAK OUT. just pretend that nothing happened, or give your guy a look and a slight smile, let him know you want him to, unless you don't then give him that "nice try" look, but still smiling letting him know you aren't mad at him. Your arms should definitely be around his shoulders/neck. ddont put them below his shoulders...that's weird. hope that helped
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