Since you are old enough to be aware that your mother thinks you hate her then sit down and talk to her. Look her right in the eye and tell her you love her and then give her a big hug because moms can be the most unappreciated of all. Your mother may feel you hate her because she has the responsibility of keeping you safe and by doing so she needs to set rules for you to go by and they are wise rules because your mother has experienced a great deal in her life and she understands a lot more than you give her credit for of what you may be going through in your life as your mother was single and young once herself. Have that heart-to-heart talk soon because if you leave it too long it could be too late.