How can you know if your boyfriend is mean or if you are just too sensitive?

Here are the signs of mental abuse: Ordering you around, Not letting you think for yourself, Calling you names, Taking your self esteem away, Putting you down in front of your friends, Constantly yelling at you, You can't do anything right for him, Making you feel as if you aren't worthy of any proper affection from men, Making you fear him, Constantly treading on eggshells for fear you will upset him, Pushing and shoving (also physical abuse), Not sharing your interests and talking about himself constantly, Seeing you when he feels like it and not making a proper date and caring about your personal time. These are a few of many, but I think you will understand them. If you feel he is doing two or more of these things, kick this guy to the curb. If someone loves you they never want to intentionally hurt you.