Is it inappropriate to wear black to a wedding?

Any color is fine with us. We're not paranoid about the meaning of colors in every setting. It's not a biggy with us.

And at funerals we don't necessarily wear black. It's a personal matter we don't bicker about such little matters.

Customs are simply customs -- we can take-em or leave-em.

In other Words, we have no problem following customs - - but we allow people enough individuality. (That kind-a puts a wrench in the common perception about JWs that we're little robots. LOL)