What to do when your husband hates yiou'?

. Perhaps you can determine underlying cause & repair. Hate is strong & no one hates anyone without some kind of reason. You have to determine if it's fixable first before you do anything. If it's not fixable, splitting at some point may be inevitable. If you can't do it alone, seek counciling as any marriage is worth saving & can be if both parties truly want it. Hopefully he cares enough about your union to work for it. Good Luck.