What makes a young man wake up to his responsibilities?

definatley having a baby

Answer

Many do not "wake up" because they can't. For instance, they may be more self-interested than having ethics as a priority. It can be all about them. In order to wise up, they need experiences that speak to their needs and wants. This can take years and most likely will not change through talking, requesting or expressing your needs. It will come when and if he is ready.