Father had extramarital affair

First of all I want you to know how sad and sorry I feel for you, knowing that your father is having an affair. I'm a mother and I have 3 teenagers and believe me that I do know how you feel even though that my husband was the one that betrayed me and my kids. I saw and felt what my 3 kids felt when I discovered his affair and seeing my kids pain, disappointment to their father almost killed me.

If you can, talk to your father and if your Mom didn't know his affair don't say anything to her yet because it's not your place to do. Tell your father how you felt and the pain that you have because of him, then tell him that he needs to tell your Mom or you will talk to your mother. See if this work and never let your father manipulate you. Good Luck!!