Why do men tell you they love you but then they continue to make you feel insecure by still communicating with other women?

The question is in two parts:

Part one: If a man tells you he loves you, there are two possibilities: he does, or he is hoping to accomplish another goal and is attempting to manipulate your emotions to get there. "Communicating" with other women is not an indication of the later, and does not cancel his feelings for you. It could be an indication that he is being manipulative, but it is not absolutely the case. Perhaps he has friends who happen to be girls. He may think of the girls with whom he is talking as sisters. There are a number of possibilities here that do not immediately predicate any sort of betrayal.

Part two: No one can make you insecure. Only you can do that. Your insecurity may be related to your interpretations, accurate or inaccurate, of their behavior or Words. But, nothing anyone does can make you do or feel anything unless you choose to do or feel the way you do. Only you are responsible for the choices you make, and how you let the actions of another affect you is a choice.

If you are uncertain what is going on when your boyfriend socializes with anyone else, and if you are feeling insecure, talk to him about it. Let him know that you feel uncomfortable, that you want to find a solution.

Be ready though. If have strong feelings for this person, and he has been trying to be manipulative, he may call it quits and walk away.

The simple thing to consider here is to not ask questions if you are not ready to hear the answer, and be prepared to get an answer you do not expect. Not that you should simply bury your head in the sand and ignore a warning sign because you might be afraid. It is more important to know. Just be ready.