How do you remove the three bolts near the fire wall where the motor bolts into the transmission while trying to remove it from a 1996 jeep grand Cherokee?

u need to support the engine with a cherry picker and then remove the long motor mount bolts. after u have done that remove the engine mount brackets from the engine. then lower the engine down on to the front axle. this will give u plenty of room to reach over the head and remove the bell housing bolts. there are usually only two not three and sometimes they require a torx socket.