What are your options if the at fault drivers insurance company does not want to total your vehicle?

There can be a lot of variables. But basically if you are close just push them to do it. I had a car that was totaled by my estimate but their adjuster came out & said no way. I asked how he came to that conclusion & I showed him my blue book & it was clsoe enough for him to go ahead & total it. But we were only about $600 apart. Were there injuries? If they still insist on not totaling your car you can always call your insirance company & have one of your adjustors come out & take a look at it.