If you are trying to lose weight how do you gain self-confidence?

I had the same problem, but what you need to do is to believe in yourself, stand in front of the mirrio and say to yourself : IF THAY CAN DO IT, I CAN TOO! I lost weight so my husban couldn't call me fat ass, every time we were fighting, that was his only armor against me, and I took this away fron him, and I won!!! How did it feel? Oh, trust me, it felt GOOD!!!!