Why do people tell you that they love you and then break your heart by staying at his ex's but saying he is confused he says he loves me but has feelings for his ex and he has two kids with her.?

most guys around this world,do that alot. its called"being played" if your knowing or sencing something that your husband is doing that's breaking your heart. tell it like it needs to be said. sit down with him and explain what your feeling. better yet divorce him so that you won't get your heart broken by him. having kids by his ex. is hurt. because he's not over her yet. he says that he loves ya,but he's actually giving more attention to his girl than you. he don't really mean it, if he did he would've stop doin this game playing. so he is confused because he has two wifes and your both good woman and he can't take one side. and he's playing with both of your hearts. so its best that you be nice about it,kiss him on the cheek and call it a breakaway. because you don't deserve this.