What do you do when your husband has no sexual interest in you and no respect for your needs?

Before anything else, have him checked for physical causes. There are a large number of physical reasons for a man to lose interest and a man is generally more responsive to visual and physical cues than women.

When your husband has no interest in you sexually then find out if he is interested in someone else. If he just has no sexual desire then you can take an interest to spark the desire if you want your marriage to work. Make things more romantic, surprise him when he's tired with a good meal or a back rub or a foot massage or some sexy lingerie, so he'll know you are interested in him. However if he has no respect for you then try talking to him or the next best thing is to walkout on him as a man who has no respect for a woman will always be callous towards her.

Pour your energy into an area of personal interest. Your job -or prepare yourself to get a better one- your kids, your physique, or commit your spare time to being an activist for a local community or political issue. There's nothing like attracting someone by making them jealous. There's nothing like moving on from a point in your life when you have alot going on.