How does a woman increase her sex drive with her husband of 10 years?

Pamper yourself, as in pedicures, tanning, keeping legs shaved, nice lotions, no granny panties or Bras, whether you are thin or well rounded all these things will help you feel sexier. Then buy a vibrator and some other adult toys, also some lube. It can be embarassing to verbalize so just write down things you want to do/try and give the note to your husband. When you have some private time use the vibrator on yourself if you haven't used one before so that you know what to expect. I have been married almost 30 years, and have 3 grown children. In my opinion, if the sex is good for both of you--orgasms for both of you--lack of desire is not an issue.