How do you talk to your daughter about her arrogant fiance?

* You are her mother so you should feel comfortable discussing 'gently' with your daughter (do not attack her about her fiance) that he is arrogant and is there a reason why he is like this. I am sure she has noticed this quality in him herself. If she doesn't want to discuss this with you then perhaps your husband or yourself can have a heart to heart talk with your future son-in-law and be pleasant, but firm and tell him his arrogance is a turn off and you are concerned as to how he will treat your daughter. Be ready for a bomb to go off from your daughter if you do this, but you have every right to be concerned. If both don't listen then you are going to have to bite the bullet; let them get married and hope for the best. Don't carry on this conversation into the present or it could alienate your daughter from you.