What makes a woman arrogant to her husband?

The man being selfish, lazy, unhelpful and arrogant himself. More precisely, when a man doesn't understand the woman, and is unwilling to TRY to understand her, be there for her, and just be a comfort and a friend to her. If a man cannot do those things, a woman will resent him, begin to show hurt or coldness towards him, and will not be as motivated to help him with domestic tasks that he expects of her.