Are Codependent people motivated not by their own successes but by someone else's approval or dependence upon them?

Yes, codependent individuals often prioritize others' needs and approval over their own successes and well-being. Their motivation frequently stems from a desire to feel needed or valued by those they are close to, which can lead to neglecting their own goals and desires. This reliance on others for self-worth can create a cycle of dependency that is difficult to break. Ultimately, their sense of fulfillment may be contingent on the approval or dependence of others rather than their own achievements.