The best thing to do is just ignore it. That has happened to me once. When your friends get stolen, after a while they realise they have done a big mistake & they will come back to you
That's a really bad answer, above.
THIS IS WHAT YOU DO..
Let's deal with one problem at a time, first. Okay, she's making everyone hate you, correct? This is a coincidence right now, because this girl is doing the exact same to me, and she's stealing my best friend.
If you are angry and seek revenge, join the club.
But, I know and you do TOO that this is not the best way to deal with this. Take slow steps at first,
1. First, try to let it blow over. Sometimes people just seek a reaction, and are just trying to get you annoyed so they can call you, I don't know, a "bully." But, you aren't. You're far from it. Give it at least three days, things die down quick if there is no reaction.
2. If Step 1 didn't work, talk to that person. BUT PLAN OUT WHAT YOU SAY, and do it in person, not on an IM or email. Doesn't work. Be sincere, and most importantly tell her how it makes you feel. And tell her that if she doesn't do anything, you're going to do something about it.
3. Tell an adult. Yes, even if you DID do something wrong which caused her to act this way, it isn't going to get better for you if you keep putting up with this crap. Just think; the quicker you do it, the quicker it'll be done.
Stealing your best friend, do I hear? Wow, it's like your exactly me. Right now the girl who is attempting to ruin my life is also trying to steal my friendship. SHE EVEN TOLD MY BEST FRIEND TO BLOCK ME ON MSN! No, that isn't necessary.
So, what to do, do you ask? It's simple... Yet so complicated.
1. Tell your best friend how much you mean to her. Remind her of the AH-MAZE-ING times you had together. There should be a few. :) Tell her how important she is.
2. If your best friend is seriously creeped out, and yes, she might be, tell her the reason why. Give her the proof that proves that the girl is stealing her. If she doesn't listen, give her the examples.
3. If she doesn't believe that she is being 'stolen,' and she isn't doing anything to show that she cares for you, let her go. There's the saying that's along the lines of 'If you love something, let it go. If it loved you back, it'll come back." If she doesn't, she isn't a friend. If she does, which I hope so, she is a true friend.
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