What do you do when you are in love someone who loves someone else?

Are you bored with the first person? Do you need something to spice things up? Are you getting something from the new person you are not getting from the one you love? If your not engaged or married, Id say pursue both. No need to be tied down and being young. You have the rest of your life to commit. One thing I do recommend... Make sure you are for sure in your decision. Once you make a decision in a relationship its sometimes hard to go back, and undue the damage. Pride is a huge thing when it comes to the heart.