Your wife cheated on you she wont admit it but says that she was living life the way you wanted to?

Unless you have actual proof then you don't know for sure your wife was cheating on you so what is there for her to admit? If you know for sure she is cheating then the statement she made to you 'I'm living life the way you wanted too' means one of two things: * You have cheated or flirted with one or more women or ignored her throughout your relationship and it hurt her and she is giving it back to you in spades mainly because she doesn't trust you any longer. There is nothing that hurts worse than infidelity. Just covering basis and not accusing you of cheating. * She's telling you that you've changed and aren't giving her the attention she deserves such as telling her you love her; letting her know she's still pretty; bringing home flowers once in awhile or taking her out on the weekend for some fun. In other Words you must have communicated to her and acted out in your past the way you wanted your life to go and now you've changed. It would be wise to back track and think about how your marriage is going and what is missing in it. Both of you are adults and should practice 'communication skills' and talk out your feelings to each other without arguing or calling each other names. No one's marriage is perfect and people make mistakes. If you love her then sit down and talk it out without accusations. It takes two to feel miserable!