Why do you want to cheat on the woman you love?

• Only you have the answer to that one, but here are some reasons why some men may feel they need to cheat: they are afraid of getting older and want to recapture their youth by having an affair with a younger woman; they may feel they are running out of time and want to have that feeling of being free and single again; they are bored with their marriage and perhaps every day stresses such as raising children; worrying about finances, etc. An intelligent man would discuss his feelings to his wife as far as not being happy in the marriage and that 'you' suggest going away on a romantic vacation. Sometimes a change of scenery can do wonders and each of you will have 100% of each others attention. If you cheat you will hurt the one you love and break that precious bond of trust that both of you should hold dear to your hearts. It's alright to look, but don't touch. In the end if you cheat you may well lose the love of your life and your own self respect.

ANSWER:

I will use my past experience with my husband. He told me that I never had time for him. All I did is take care of our children. Every where we go we always take our kids. I stop communicating with him. I never find time to listen when he talk. I didn't pursue finding family church. Never sit with him to work on our financial. I stop making him feel special. I stop having sex with him. These are some explanation why my husband had his affair.

Now this is my story; in early years of our marriage being in the navy and station in the ship his always away. I was handed huge responsibilities after we got married. I love to talk or let me say making conversation but he hardly talk which I accepted it. I become his shadow and follow him wherever the navy takes him.

But I will make this short this man that I married never had time for me because his always busy even before he had his affair he was always busy and hardly home because of his job.